How does one succeed in life?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

My cantankerous beagle is very badly behaved at the dog park and always starts barking at the other dogs. Would pepper spray be an effective method to correct his inappropriate behavior?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Why are terrible, boring art pieces done by famous people worth so much while beautiful pieces done by amateurs are worthless?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

That's it for today.

What is the experience of wearing a school uniform every day? Do people typically get used to it or dislike it?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Why does the UK Labour MP Jess Philips seem to be such a divisive figure?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Why do men like to have sex with a woman's ass?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Making more friends is a goal.

What I need from you?

Are there girls here who like group sex?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Why is the mainstream media, traditionally liberal except for Fox, not reporting on Trump like he's a traditional candidate who has ideas, values, and a concern for the common good?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

How many wishes do people get on their birthday?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

How do you write lyrics for a song that resonates with listeners?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

I am still studying engineering. I feel worried being an average student. Can I get a good job in placement, buy a house, and a car? I don't know why I feel this.

Ask yourself:

Procrastinates a lot.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

What is the most inappropriate thing your wife has done in front of you?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Does not procrastinate.

Who's your celebrity crush?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

What was your most memorable combat mission during the Vietnam War?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.